"If I keep my tongue, my family will be peaceful." Actress Bahora Arslonova on submissiveness to her husband and being forced to work harder because of loans

**"If I keep my tongue, my family will be peaceful": Actress Bahora Arslonova spoke about her subordination to her husband and the fact that she is forced to work more because of loans**

A famous actress and mother of three children, Bahora Arslonova, spoke frankly about her life in an interview with the "Shall We Talk?" project. She talked about the fact that she is forced to go to wedding services because of her loans, her last meeting with her father, and ways to prevent misunderstandings in family relations with her husband.

**"I will not play a role for gratitude now"**

According to the actress, earning a living is now her priority. "This is not the time to keep acting for the sake of gratitude. The reason is that if you want to buy something, you will not have enough money. I think 99 percent of people make their purchases on credit. I have the same situation. Then you run to this job and that job to pay off the loan. This is also a normal lifestyle - this is also for the good," she said.

Currently, Bahora Arslonova is only busy with the series being filmed by director Ozod Shams. The actress, who said that she has not received any offers for other series and films, noted that new faces are emerging and young directors may not know their skills. In her opinion, the Internet is now more developed, and actors and actresses are more popular on Instagram than on television. However, she said that she would like to gather around the table and watch Uzbek films with hot tea, as in the past.

The actress also reported that she earns income from advertising and hosting weddings. "Now, the artist, the marketer, the tailor, the cameraman - everyone is being fed. After taking out loans, a person is throwing himself everywhere," she added.

**"My father died on his birthday during the Hajj pilgrimage"**

Bahora Arslonova also spoke about her late father. "My grateful father was a prosecutor, he always showed me the good sides of life. I was a very masculine child, and I think that today's girls are probably not as masculine as I was. Even when I was a girl, I would say very bad things, but she would take them away. I would tell him all my secrets and my troubles. It would be bad if such a person suddenly disappeared. It was very difficult for me to come to my senses, I even asked, "Oh God, take my life," she said.

The actress expressed her gratitude for her father's performance of the Hajj pilgrimage. She recalled the last time she met her father on his birthday, before he left for Mecca. "My father had three wives, and we all gathered at my third mother's house. We sat around a big table. We talked about their departure for the Hajj, what gifts and greetings they would bring from there. As we were saying goodbye, a voice came from under my ear, saying, 'Take a picture with your father.' All my brothers, sisters, family members, we took a picture with my father. This was our last picture with my father," Bahora Arslonova recounted.

Her father's name was Kurban, and he was born on Eid al-Adha. He passed away on his birthday, at the age of 63, on Eid al-Adha, after performing the Hajj pilgrimage in Mecca. "That day, she told her close friend, 'I'm leaving today, say goodbye.' Even though her friend said, 'You're joking, don't say that,' my father said, 'No, I'm leaving.' By the time her friend got to my father, he had already passed away. They buried my father there. My older brother came and died after returning from Hajj. Now, if my other brothers go, we can go later. Going before them is a sign of lack of discipline in us. On the day we are destined, we will definitely go after them. When the time comes, I will meet my father in paradise," the actress said.

**"My husband could not find a job because of women"**

Bahora Arslonova expressed concern that many organizations are currently providing opportunities and jobs to women, and as a result, many men are becoming unemployed. "In fact, a man should take responsibility for the family. What he says should be what he means. He has a blessing in his money. But now, because women have more work, men are falling behind in this regard. But they are trying," she said.

Citing her husband as an example, the actress said that he worked in a good company, but the company closed down. When he went to work somewhere else, he could not find a job because the manager was a woman, and in another place there were no vacancies. In the end, he became an entrepreneur. "Now, no matter where you look, both the master and the chauffeur are women - it's true, they also work to support their families. I understand this very well. I would like men to be more courageous, more hardworking," Bahora Arslonova emphasized.

**"If I hold my tongue, there will be no quarrels in my family"**

The actress emphasized that women should hold their tongues to save the family. "If I hold my tongue, my family will be peaceful, otherwise there will be wars and quarrels. Even if my husband accuses me unjustly, I will remain silent. Then he will understand and apologize. Even if he says, 'Yes, no, that's fine,' I will not switch from 'Yes, no, that's fine.' For me, the most important thing is for a woman to hold her tongue," concluded Bahora Arslonova.